Turnbull Summons Draws Mixed Reactions
John Turnbull, a coach at the Scotch Plains-Fanwood and Westfield high schools, is scheduled to appear in court Oct. 6.
The Sept. 14 arrest of John Turnbull, a local substitute teacher and coach, sparked an outcry among local students and parents. With his scheduled appearance next Thursday in Westfield Municipal Court, the rhetoric has increased.
Turnbull, the coach for Scotch Plains-Fanwood High School's boys' JV soccer team and Westfield High School's boys' varsity golf team, as well as a substitute teacher for the Scotch Plains-Fanwood School District, allegedly poured a glass of wine each for two 17-year-olds he took to dinner at the Brick Oven Restaurant on Quimby Street in Westfield, according to Westfield Police Capt. Clifford Aucher.
A patron at the restaurant contacted police, Aucher said, upon recognizing that the boys – members of Scotch Plains-Fanwood's JV soccer team – were not old enough to legally drink alcohol.
Officers charged Turnbull with "knowingly or purposefully" offering, serving or making available "an alcoholic beverage to a person under the legal age for consuming alcoholic beverages," according to the official summons complaint – a disorderly-persons offense punishable by up to six months in prison and a maximum fine of $1,000.
Turnbull has since been suspended from coaching or teaching at Scotch Plains-Fanwood schools pending the outcome of the case, Superintendent Margaret Hayes said in a telephone interview, and lacrosse coach and math teacher Ken Ellsworth was appointed by the Board of Education to serve as the substitute soccer coach.
Westfield Schools Superintendent Margaret Dolan did not return phone calls seeking comment. The incident, however, comes seven months after the arrest of Westfield fourth-grade teacher Brendan Hickey, who was found with less than 50 grams of marijuana during a motor vehicle stop on East Broad Street on Feb. 11. Hickey, then the hockey and girls lacrosse coach, was initially assigned to administrative duty, but ultimately returned to the classroom.
Turnbull, reached by phone on Saturday, said simply, "I'm not an animal." Contacted on Tuesday for a follow-up by this reporter, he declined to comment.
Over the course of 26 years, Turnbull has become a fixture of local sports. For Scotch Plains-Fanwood High School, in addition to coaching the boys junior varsity soccer team, he has served as a golf coach, regularly kept time for wrestling matches and basketball games, and frequently supervised ice hockey practices that often don't start until 9 p.m., according to varsity soccer coach Tom Breznitsky.
His involvement wasn't limited to the athletic fields. Indeed, Sept. 14 was not the first time that Turnbull treated students to a meal.
"Players from his JV teams that have made honor roll, he's taken them to dinner," Breznitsky said. "He's taken kids to England to see Chelsea soccer games. Some of the fathers have gone along with him."
The mention of parents' presence, however, points to the concerns that inherently arise from incidents like the one reported Sept. 14 – an interaction involving alcohol, teenagers, an adult more than twice their age, and the police.
"I'm not really that upset about it," said Dan Ray, as he watched his son, a junior on the soccer team, compete against Plainfield High School on Tuesday afternoon. "If it were my kid, I would want to know what brought it to that point. If I was able to see it was a spontaneous thing, it wouldn't be that big of a deal. But if I felt it was more than that, then I would be upset."
He firmly emphasized, however, that in this particular incident, he felt that Turnbull did not have "ill intent," and that the incident represented simply "one lapse in judgment," adding, "I don't think anyone should be judged after nearly 30 years of productive input into the community – everything that he's done for 30 years – from one lapse of judgment. Everybody goes through life with the opportunity to make mistakes."
Breznitsky insisted that Turnbull's heavy involvement with high school sports and athletes stems simply from "a genuine liking for kids. Anyone in education, you have to like the kids. John, he just enjoyed the company of the boys. There were never any thoughts or any doubts that it was anything else."
Some parents, however, were more critical. "I am so glad that a parent stepped up," said Michele Valian, whose son is a freshman on the soccer team. "I would do the same thing. I would've called the police. He's a man in authority. To give alcohol to underage children, it's not right." She added, "I'm very disappointed."
Many spectators at the game, however, expressed support for Turnbull. "He was an institution," said Scotch Plains resident Cheryl Hankin, whose son is a junior on the soccer team. "I think that the boys respected his experience and his expertise. Between Turnbull and Brez, they were soccer."
Pete Richter, a soccer referee whose grandson is a freshman on the team, said that on the field, "my impression was he's fairly strict. He takes no bull. He was a very good coach as far as I was concerned."
SPF PT
6:58 am on Friday, September 30, 2011
Nice, balanced article. Now let's let the court system decide this matter.
Joe
10:53 am on Friday, September 30, 2011
Listen People, John Turnbull is A Good Guy. He has been a Devoted Coach and Teacher since I was in High school 25 years ago. John made a split second mistake and is paying dearly for it. I have Been in this town my whole life, went to school here, and still work around here. If you ALL think Parents arent throwing parties and serving Your Kids Alcohol You are Mistaken. The Students are out of control right now. I Love seeing how EVERYONE gets on their High Horse. Look in the Mirror People. I have Seen Many of you do the same thing... Even Worse!!!!
Common Sense
8:09 am on Friday, September 30, 2011
The costs to defend and manage this mess will spend some of the $82m budget, a victory for mismanagement of a failed education system. Sounds like Turnbull has lawyered up, first smart thing he’s done. Brez should do the same…has ANYONE of the teachers or staff been directed by the school board on how to conduct themselves with the press? Does Dr. Hayes have a clue on what she is doing? What about the teachers union, certainly they give their dues paying members appropriate counsel on how to talk (not talk) to the press! If human nature is predicable, the parents will look to cash in under advice of a blood-sucking attorney & sue for “blah, blah, blah”. The only thing that saves the school board as a defense is a permission slip…it might go like this;
“I (parent name) as parent of (student), allow the adult coach to escort my son to dinner. I agree that if that coach brings his own wine, it can be for mutual consumption by all at dinner, even if its only this one time. While this is in direct violation of state, local & school law and ethically irresponsible, I approve. Since this was NOT a sanctioned event by the SFP schools, I will hold harmless & waive my right to sue the SPF schools . I agree that the stupid behavior of a 26 year institution of the SPF school system should go unpunished (if he is caught), since he’s been such a pillar of the community.”
Hoping the SPF school board has that document on file…
M Boyle
8:28 am on Tuesday, October 11, 2011
No Common Sense
Illegal contracts are unenforceable. Your suggestion legally is ridiculous and illustrates a complete lack of understanding about the law.
Cold Fusion
8:33 am on Friday, September 30, 2011
I think it is important to point out that the writer here seeked comment from Westfield because he is the golf coach at Westfield which is unclear. As it reads you implies that he is the golf coach at SPF.
The other issue here is that the writer fails to look into the fact that Mr. Turnbull has been in trouble before for supplying "stuff" to kids. Would be a nice and complete article if there was a little more investigation done.
CrowBarr
9:18 am on Friday, September 30, 2011
I know for a fact that the person writing as Cold Fusion has done "things" with certain persons who have had "stuff" in their backgrounds.
If you know something that's public record about the coach's past feel free to post a link or provide specific details that can be verified. Otherwise stop posting ambiguous gossip and innuendos.You shameless coward.
twogirls84
8:53 am on Friday, September 30, 2011
The thing that amazes me the most regarding all of the commentary since this story broke, is the fact that parents have stepped up to support Mr. Turnball, feeling that his long standing character should override any lapse in judgement. Mr. Turnball broke the law...plain and simple, as do many of the parent in both Westfield and Scotch Plains by allowing underage drinking in their homes. This baffles me. If the students were caught drinking in a park, on school grounds, in a car...they'd be penalized just for the fact that they were breaking the law. What would the parent reaction be then? I truly wonder if so many parents have stepped up to the plate, not so much concerned about Mr. Turnball personally, but more concerned over how Mr. Turnball's removal will affect the SPFHS soccer program. Mr. Turnball, as wonderful as he might be, had an awful lapse in judgement...the parental reaction to this is strangely puzzling.
qj
6:34 pm on Sunday, October 2, 2011
I agree with you Twogirls84. He is a great teacher and coach to many of our local students. however like many public officials both teacher and law enforcers alike...they must be more cautious and carful in the public eye. More scrutiny is placed upon, teachers, coaches, policemen, firemen, school adminstrators, etc....
qj
6:37 pm on Sunday, October 2, 2011
I also want to add that many local policemen and state policemen near and dear to fanwood and scotchplains have broken the law many a time and have been covered up by their cronies. Poor Mr. Turnbull should have thought better of this. Even if he is allowed to drink at a BYOB restaurant, he should not have in front of his students and players. Could he have gone one night with out the wine? Children of all ages are impressionable.
Tom Meredith
4:46 pm on Wednesday, October 12, 2011
twogirls 84: People are supporting Mr. Turnbull because of his long standing positive interactions in the community with students, they are not necessarily supporting his actions on September 14 which is clearly a lapse. I think the consistant thread is that his entire career should not be overshadowed by one mis-step and he loose his ability to earn an income.
Bamboozle
8:55 am on Friday, September 30, 2011
Does this mean that we should now let our kids drink? even if they are minors? We're ok with that because EVERYONE does it, right? We should let any adult serve our children because EVERYONE does it. Forget that if EVERYONE jumped off the Brooklyn Bridge speech...All of you who think Turnbull should be given a slap on the wrist and allowed back to work. Be careful what you wish for... the next time a "lapse in judgement" occurs - it might not be so "harmless". And it could be YOUR kid who ends up in jail or the hospital. No big deal. Your kid shouldn't be upset - after all he is being sacrificed for the good of a man who contributed to the community for 30 years; 'cause the community says he is such a stellar teacher, coach and mentor who offers drugs to kids. I really hope SPF administrators show better judgement. If parents would like to send their kids (freely) to Turnbull for training, that is their choice. Turnbull can still make a living and your kids can still have their coach. Don't expect the rest of us to say it's ok that he is exposed to our kids via our school system.
SPmom
9:43 am on Friday, September 30, 2011
great article. seeing both sides is a good thing. lets se what happens on oct6 in court
Mary Morano
10:42 am on Friday, September 30, 2011
This is soooo exhausting!! I really wonder if Mr. Turnbull is cognitively delayed or he thinks he is so above the law to think this is just a mistake and no big deal. Did anyone ask if any of the boys he poured wine for was driving that night? I am assuming they have their driving license. What if the 17 year old driver got in an accident? .......and then through an investigation it was learned that he was out with his coach at a restaurant who poured him some wine. This would be another story wouldn't it? Mr. Turnbull's fight for innocence would be a larger battle. What is wrong with all you parents!!! How can you condone such behaviors? Just the fact that he blatantly did this is a public forum and did not feel it was a big deal or taken seriously at the the time does not excuse him. He made the wrong choice.. Isn't he a role model that should teach these young adults to make the RIGHT choices in life?....to say NO when an opportunity arises that is wrong? How sad that the adult coach/teacher/mentor did not do his job to protect the morals of these students.
Con-do'h!
11:32 am on Friday, September 30, 2011
Based on what we know, what coach did was illegal but I'd hardly say immoral, unless you're a Muslim and against alcohol. We don't even know if the kids drive themselves or were dropped off/picked up, or if the parents knew what the coach was doing. No one here condones what he did, but some of us just aren't ready to lynch him yet.
Other things I don't condone:
1. School admins looking the other way about kids from outside the district going to our schools
2. Groups of high school girls wearing short-shorts with sexually suggestive wording on the butt walking around without adult supervision at 11pm on school nights
3. Teenagers in luxury cars tearing down side streets at twice the speed limit
4. The fact that the town is repaving Park/Martine now that school's open
5. The ridiculous Bonnie Burn redesign fiasco
6. People racing through a yellow/red light going west on North ave at Hetfield. What is it about this intersection that makes drivers think they're invincible. Seriously, WTF people?
7. The ridiculously long red light at Martine and North ave. I know you all know which one I mean.
8. People who move into a community that's been developing since the 17th century and immediately decide they know how to improve it.
qj
6:40 pm on Sunday, October 2, 2011
Yes Mary. He will fight and if he loses all the parents and Mr Turnbull will claim that he will be made the example. Just like P.O. Letteri who is on suspension, collecting unemployment, got off the drunk driving rap, will probably beat the destructive driving rap and get his back pay...all the while making money off the books with a local employer. And he is a good guy too parents. don't you all see...we the public pay for this all in the end
M Boyle
11:17 am on Friday, September 30, 2011
John will pay a fen and then continue his fabulous service to many communities
Plain&Simple
12:04 pm on Friday, September 30, 2011
Most likely not. The BOE of both Westfield and SPwill not take the heat of hiring him back at this point. Besides that, would the guy actually want to come back after these towns has been debating his appropriateness as a role model? While there are plenty that support him, there are at least the same amount who believe he should not be back. I'll keep my opinion to that to myself, but I wouldn't count on his return.
M Boyle
11:17 am on Friday, September 30, 2011
Meant fine
Mary Morano
12:03 pm on Friday, September 30, 2011
I did not mean moral values about alcohol....meant life values ..... doing the RIGHT thing, making the right choices and following the law!! Students who look up and admire Mr. Turnbull follow in his lead as a mentor. Seventeen is a vulnerable age where they cross from children to adulthood. It is hard enough to battle the hormonal changes......and discipline of wanting to be treated like an adult when they are still kids. it becomes conflicting to these young adults and harder to comprehend following the rules of the law when their admirers break the law and think it is OK.. Again.....stick to the facts....Mr. Turnbull broke the law and there should be a consequence.
Common Sense
12:37 pm on Friday, September 30, 2011
@Joe - was the split second mistake before he made the invitation to dinner for unaccompanied minors? Before he purchased the bottle of wine? Before he filled the wine glass? Before he allowed the consumption by the minor(s)? I just want to be sure when the mistake was made and more so, the intent in which it was made. Would you do this? A person in his position is absolutely held to a higher standard. All town gossip aside, it is not about him being a good guy or making a mistake. Would you have served high school athletes booze?
Joe
2:16 pm on Friday, September 30, 2011
@Common Sense. No I would have Not done this. However I am A Police Officer and know of Many Parties in this town, where The Parents are serving alcohol to HS kids. I do Not condone this, and would not have done it myself. However I do Believe People Need to get off their High Horse. SPF school admin knows EXACTLY what has been going on in this town and chooses to look the other way. Let me ask you. What sends a worse message? a guy pouring a sip of wine, which the student did NOT drink? or a teacher being Busted for Possession of Marijuana? Why should the teacher who was in Possession of Marijuana get his job back? Listen like I said 25 years ago when I was in SPFHS we Drank with coaches and Teachers on trips. Today is a different time, But I dont believe the Man should lose Everything over this.
Dana
1:28 pm on Friday, September 30, 2011
I think you all should get over it, a glass of wine is not going to kill these kids. Frankly, American parents are way too paranoid and they're children will become alcoholics at age 15 because they had a glass of cheap-but-not-really wine.
Get over it. This man obviously realizes that kids are more responsible than most people take them for and need to be given room to experience. You don't see kids having total ragers in Europe because alcohol is apart of their culture, and now annoyingly paranoid parents are apart of America's.
If someone grows up learning that alchol is just another beverage only for special occasions, they're is no reason for them to believe otherwise. In the eyes of some parents this is a new low for the school system, but this should not reflect the system as a whole because of one individual who actually has some common sense, unlike you weirdos.
Wesley
4:15 pm on Friday, September 30, 2011
No Dana, worrying these kids will become alcoholics is not the issue.
The issue it that this man, a coach, offered student-athletes a drug. Not only is that illegal because of their age (again, this is not a moral issue, this is a legal issue), he did knowing that A) he is under contract stating any illegal activity can cost him his jib AND B) the student-athletes are under contract stating that they must abstain from drugs or be kicked off the team if caught.
He broke a law: Technically enough to lose his job.
He broke a law involving minors who he has authority over as coach: More than enough to lose his job.
He broke a law involving minors who he has authority over as coach and put said minors at risk of violating team rules: It's a joke if he doesn't lose his job.
When it comes to children, there is no second chances for teachers and coaches.
qj
6:43 pm on Sunday, October 2, 2011
OKAY!!! party at Dana's house...everyone bring you 15 - 18 year old hs-ers hope they stuff up your toilets, barf on your rugs and pass out inyour beds
good luck...she is the cool mom!
Troubled in SP
1:34 pm on Friday, September 30, 2011
Dana: we don't live in Europe. It;s also legal to go as fast as one wants on the Audobon in Germany and they have minimal accidents- would it be ok for everyone to drive 110 miles an hour on the Parkway? No. If you're caught - you get a ticket for speeding, maybe reckless driving and definitely have to deal with the consequence of multiple points on your license.. If Turnbull poured the wine, he should do the "time". If he didn't pour it, then he has nothing to worry about.
Mary Morano
1:39 pm on Friday, September 30, 2011
Dana, you are missing the point?........Mr. Turnbull broke the law....regardless of what you and others think.... and what the cultures are in Europe...he did NOT follow the AMERICAN law!...and that is NOT OK.
Vanderhaven Farms Toy Drive
1:50 pm on Friday, September 30, 2011
Test
beth hart
1:57 pm on Friday, September 30, 2011
To Crowbarr...the person before you is correct. Turnball has gotten in trouble before for providing the kids with "illegal" stuff. A few years before I graduated I believe that he was arrested for providing students with some type of illegal drug..either to the wrestling or football team. He was banned from ever coaching in the district again...that is why he went to westfield. I think maybe that is why they suspended him pending the outcome of this case...this is not the first time he has been in trouble before. yes, I admit what he did really wasnt a big deal, but he's no stranger to illegal activity. He is known to be a past drug user. Cant speak for his actions now a days. Just because he is a good tough coach doesnt mean that what you see is what you get.
ANONYMOUS
2:20 pm on Friday, September 30, 2011
to twogirls 84: Hooray. Finally, an appropriate comment that hits the mark on all counts mentioned. EVERYONE WHO POSTS A COMMENT SHOULD READ THIS FIRST.
Joe
2:21 pm on Friday, September 30, 2011
@beth hart.... should know your facts. Turnbull was Not in trouble for providing anything to students. He was Never Banned for life from coaching. Turnbull had a substance problem 20 years ago, he Never provided or sold anything. He got help, and returned to the classroom.
beth hart
3:06 pm on Friday, September 30, 2011
to Joe: You should know YOUR facts! He was banned from coaching in scotch plains! I guess his daughter coming into pre-school telling everyone that her daddy sniffs white stuff up his nose was wrong too right?
Joe
3:16 pm on Friday, September 30, 2011
beth, thats not being a drug dealer.. The man lost his wife and daughter over a substance problem. He received help and returned to teaching. Is not much different than any of the teachers or coaches who are at the Bars around town Drunk. Actually maybe someone should ask Super Coach BREZ...Did you drink with any students in Europe???
beth hart
3:28 pm on Friday, September 30, 2011
Hey Joe,
My problem here is not that he poured wine to two students... personally as long as they were not driving, I could care less..that is probably nothing abnormal outside of peoples houses now a days. My problem is with him coaching again when he was supposedly "banned" from teaching. He did in fact get in trouble in the district for providing students with a drug back in the day. Whether its hear-say or not... more than 1 person has written about this particular incident. There is nothing wrong with a coach who lives in the district to be out socializing at a bar... with family, friends or by themselves. I dont get involved in stories about brez.... thats a whole other chapter.
Common Sense
3:44 pm on Friday, September 30, 2011
@Joe - thank you for your service as a police officer! Everyone gets a mulligan right? Not sure I agree with your earlier point, should he lose everything? Well-thinking he's already been down that road; the unflappable Mr. Turnbull will have to take the medicine on this one. Suspect your comments on Brez are more than casual gossip-but, who knows. I have heard of the in-town parties to which you refer & the deeds of the minority should not be weighed to judge the entire SPF community. There are plenty of good kids, strong parents and sound teachers and coaches, who don't partake or condone this crap! There is a strong network of parents who help watch out for each other’s families. We know who the good, bad and ugly ones are. Decent behaviors and sound judgments never go out of style. And extra-curricular adult behaviors are fine, as long as they don't infringe upon the rights of others or unduly influence minors.
Wall
3:46 pm on Friday, September 30, 2011
How DARE Mr. Wall subject our children to the poison of second-hand smoke?!? It's not just illegal to smoke in the boys' rooms, it's horribly immoral to make children breathe in clouds of cancer when all they want to do is take a wee! And just because no children have been diagnosed with lung cancer YET, what if Mr. Wall dropped a cigarette on the floor and someone tripped on it? Or what if someone with a smoke allergy breathed it in and went into convulsions and DIED! Just because it hasn't happened yet doesn't mean it couldn't, our kids were lucky this time. We need to hold algebra teachers to a much higher standard, and Mr. Wall is no longer a role model in my household. Submit all the adoring letters that you want about how much Mr. Wall has done for your kids, but this kind of behavior is totally outside the bounds of a civilized society. He should have stopped smoking after his first cigarette and he gets no second chances if he smoked another!
Vettgrl
6:44 pm on Friday, September 30, 2011
I think Mr. Turnbull needs to go out with his adult friends. Teachers singling out a few students creeps me out a little. There is something wrong here. He needs to find friends of his own age to drink with.
qj
6:46 pm on Sunday, October 2, 2011
yee ha!
JMOS
8:57 am on Saturday, October 1, 2011
He should have Given them Zanax, I bet Mommies wouldnt have complained about that. Get real people. It was a Toast you idiots.
Mary Morano
1:42 pm on Saturday, October 1, 2011
JMOS.............and you know this happened how????.......enough with what everyone thinks happened......feels should/ should not happen....... the REAL fact is that Mr. Turnbull broke the LAW and got caught.....simple .....just the REAL facts!!!!
Bob White
12:20 am on Sunday, October 2, 2011
From reading the comments above I have come to the conclusion that most of the people who write on this is completely mentally challenged. Please stop inferring from what you think you know about Mr. Turnbull. Only start to judge the man from the facts. Also, the court system is corrupt so the odds Mr. Turnbull would have a fair trial is minimal to none.
SP Resident
10:39 am on Sunday, October 2, 2011
Here's what troubles me about the whole thing:
1) I don't know Mr. Turnbull, so I asked my 3 kids who recently went through SPFHS. They had heard the rumors about getting "illegal stuff" from him.
2)The fact that the vast majority of parents in SP-F ALSO provide alcohol to minors does not make this situation right. There are an awful lot of clueless parents who spout the "I'd rather them drink where I can see them" philosophy. I often think these parents are doing this to justify their own "party" lifestyle. Here's an idea, how about teaching your children to live within the law, how about following the law yourself. Did my kids ever go to these houses? Yes, and when they were caught there was a penalty. There was also a phone call to the homeowner telling them had my kid gotten sick or in an accident, I'd own their house.
3)We've learned alot in recent years about how pedophiles gain access to their victims. They gain the trust of the parents, they "befriend" their victims, they provide drugs or alcohol to "relax" the victims...then they make their move. The similarities between a pedophile's "MO" and this case are eerily similar.
4) How does a teacher/coach in Westfield - who's caught in possession of a drug - regain access to a classroom?
I'm so glad my kids are out of the SP-F school system.
And...BTW...some of the female teachers at the HS should be looked at for their interactions with male students.
qj
12:06 pm on Wednesday, October 5, 2011
sp resident
you went too
far
accusing now all teachers of being immoral. perhaps your children did not have good relationships with their teachers...or their peers. perhaps there was some jealousy. Yes, Turnbull broke the law, made a very bad judgement call. Leave ita t that and let the courts decide. That is America..that is why we have freedom and that is why you can post such ridiculous comments on the Patch.
firedup49
11:29 am on Sunday, October 2, 2011
a mistake? It was some CREEP, that decided to be "politically correct."
Many times I have gone to restaurants, or wine tasting events, and have seen, Aunt, Uncle parents, whoever, just giving a taste of wine or taste (only taste) drink to someone. This to me is not trying to get someone intoxicated. I do not know if what Turnbull did is true or not.
Personally I think it is time to get rid of the ridiculous "politically correct" it is the most stupidest idea ever... bring back Walt Kowalski (Grand Torino)
barry
6:58 pm on Monday, October 3, 2011
John 7:53-8:11
Jesus said, "Let him who is without sin cast the first stone"
M Boyle
11:19 am on Wednesday, October 5, 2011
Maybe Patch should require everyone who posts here to reveal their names. My guess is that more than half of these comments wouldn't be made if the person had to reveal their real names.
M Boyle
11:49 am on Wednesday, October 5, 2011
SP Resident
Your quote " We've learned alot in recent years about how pedophiles gain access to their victims. They gain the trust of the parents, they "befriend" their victims, they provide drugs or alcohol to "relax" the victims...then they make their move. The similarities between a pedophile's "MO" and this case are eerily similar." This quote is totally irresponsible, is libel per se and I wish you would reveal your name so that you could be subejct to a lawsuit for your reprehensible remarks.
Lauren Harnett
8:55 pm on Sunday, October 9, 2011
Most of these comments are ridiculous. It seems to me that a lot of these parents commenting on this are doing so in exactly the same mindset that I know my own mother would; one of assumption. You're all commenting on this situation as though you know everything about it and Mr. Turnbull when, in reality, you probably know just about as much as this article has told you. And if you've gotten any information from other neighbors and friends, that's probably even worse; the rate of gossip in this town is ridiculous. I think that the parents of Scotch Plains and Westfield are bigger gossips and bullies than their own children in the high school. If this story is really bothering you that much, you need to find a hobby or something. Yes, he illegally poured wine for 17-year-old minors. Whoopdie do. If he gets in trouble, he gets in trouble. It's not as though he was dealing them meth -- they're going to drink on their own anyway. And regardless of the morality of the situation, i do understand all of the points made that this is purely a legal issue. Nothing is purely a legal issue, however, because the fact that his actions were illegal doesn't automatically negate the potential ethical appropriateness of the situation. Reactions like the one's I've read here is the problem with this town, not Turnbull. Personally, I do NOT miss the horrible gossip and assuming nature of all the parents back home. My friends in college should not be more mature than you guys.
qj
10:45 pm on Sunday, October 9, 2011
Lauren
Every young coed in our great nation thinks they know better. You are but a young 18 or perhaps 19 year old. Not legally allowed to drink. Great you are using all you have learned and your parents have spent on your education to react to the many concerned parents of these great towns. Wait. Wait until you become a parent. Your opinions may change. And yes, Scotch Plains, Fanwood and yes Westfield are marvelous towns, I bet you will look at them when you and your young family in years to come will look to these towns for a first home. They are some of the best towns in NJ and the Tri state are. AND yes LAUREN, many of us know why you are writing this.Defend or not to defend. Sometimes it is best to keep quiet and listen.
Lauren Harnett
12:57 pm on Monday, October 10, 2011
qj, don't assume that you know why I write things on here. I'm away at school; I really know next to nothing about what happened here. What I do know is that most of the responses here are drastic overreactions. That's all. Please refrain from assuming that you know anything about me, my maturity level, or why I do things, because you don't.
qj
4:57 pm on Wednesday, October 12, 2011
Lauren, yes you are away at school so why get so involved when you are happy to have left our town? I beleive Mr Meredith said it well when he wrote that it is not Mr Turnbull the parents of this town are upset with, it is his actions. That is why I said wait until you are a parent yourself and you may understand. M Boyle and Fanwood resident both teter back and forth on defending him and accusing him.
M Boyle
1:12 pm on Monday, October 10, 2011
Good for you Lauren.
fanwoodresident
6:27 am on Tuesday, October 11, 2011
Well said Lauren. It took a young adult to put all of the adults on these blogs in their places. I have no direct knowledge of the circumstances of the alleged incident. I can tell you that this senseless gossip and defaming of the teacher/coach and all the references are mean and cruel to him and to the families involved. Shame on Patch/AOL for allowing this to go on and shame on the people commenting. Except for the parties involved it is none of your business.
qj
4:58 pm on Wednesday, October 12, 2011
Fanwood Resident, then why are you reading this. It is a way for us all to communicate and express. Just like the people camping out on Wall street.
Arsenal Fan
8:58 am on Wednesday, October 19, 2011
Turnbull is a big kid, he made a mistake that didn't do any harm. He's not a bad sort,even if he is a Chelsea fan.
BG
5:46 pm on Friday, October 21, 2011
What happened to the hearing that was scheduled for october 6th?